The Biharis Were Not Outsiders to East Pakistan. They Helped Build It.

Whenever I read about the Biharis of Bangladesh, I notice where the story usually begins: 1971. I understand why. That year contains the terrible questions of loyalty, collaboration, killings and revenge. But beginning there produces a distorted picture. It turns an entire population into a problem created by a war. My family also came from Bihar. Perhaps that makes me more sensitive to the missing part of this history. The Urdu-speaking migrants of East Pakistan did not spend twenty-four years waiting for 1971 to happen. They worked. They raised families and entered professions. Many became part of the railways and … Continue reading The Biharis Were Not Outsiders to East Pakistan. They Helped Build It.

My Grandfather Died in Bihar. Why Should Talking About Him Make Me Less Pakistani?

Someone recently told me that I should stop talking about Bihar. I have heard disagreements about identity before, but this one became personal very quickly. My parents came from Bihar, and many of my relatives have roots there. Yet I was told that my attachment to Bihar made my loyalty questionable. Then came the word “traitor.” I was compared with Afghans who live in Pakistan but retain an attachment to Afghanistan. The argument, as I understood it, was simple: once your family has made Pakistan its home, why keep talking about another place? I thought about that for a while. … Continue reading My Grandfather Died in Bihar. Why Should Talking About Him Make Me Less Pakistani?