Someone recently told me that I should stop talking about Bihar. I have heard disagreements about identity before, but this one became personal very quickly. My parents came from Bihar, and many of my relatives have roots there. Yet I was told that my attachment to Bihar made my loyalty questionable. Then came the word “traitor.” I was compared with Afghans who live in Pakistan but retain an attachment to Afghanistan. The argument, as I understood it, was simple: once your family has made Pakistan its home, why keep talking about another place? I thought about that for a while. … Continue reading My Grandfather Died in Bihar. Why Should Talking About Him Make Me Less Pakistani?